How to Get Married to an Indonesian

A blend of Indonesian law, religious laws, and longstanding cultural traditions shapes marriage in Indonesia. The Indonesian government officially recognizes six religions, and couples must follow the legal requirements and religious procedures of their respective beliefs to be considered legally married.

For Muslim couples, the marriage ceremony is conducted under Sharia law at the Office of Religious Affairs (Kantor Urusan Agama). In contrast, non-Muslim couples register their marriage at the local civil registry office (Catatan Sipil) after their religious ceremony.

Whether you are an Indonesian citizen or a foreign citizen, you must provide all necessary documents, including a certificate of no impediment and a valid marriage certificate, to ensure the civil registry office recognizes your marriage.

The process is designed to ensure that all marriages in Indonesia comply with both Indonesian law and the religious laws of the parties involved. By following the correct procedures and submitting the required paperwork, your marriage in Indonesia will be considered legal and valid by the Indonesian government.

How to Get Married in Indonesia: A Clear, Step-by-Step Roadmap

Legal marriage between 2 different citizenship involves unique legal and cultural rules. This guide outlines each step clearly so you know exactly what to prepare and expect without confusion. Let’s get into it!

Step 1: Check if You’re Ready to Marry

Before starting anything else, make sure you and your partner meet Indonesia’s basic marriage requirements. You’ll both need to be at least 19 years old and unmarried. Also, Indonesia requires couples to share the same religion for a local marriage. But in practice, this has been consistently interpreted as requiring both individuals to belong to the same of the six officially recognized religions: Islam, Protestantism, Catholicism, Hinduism, Buddhism, or Confucianism.

Under Indonesian marriage law, the religious identity and legal status of each party concerned are essential for the validity of the marriage.

Step 2: Decide on a Prenuptial Agreement (Prenup)

Think carefully about whether you’ll need a prenup. In Indonesia, having one allows spouses to hold property separately during marriage, as required under Indonesian law, and protects your right to own property. You have to sign this agreement before your wedding. But if you miss it, don’t panic, there’s a postnup option later on.

Step 3: Collect Your Important Documents

Gathering the right paperwork is crucial. You’ll need to prepare the following documents:

General Documents for Indonesian Partner (WNI)

Documents Needed for Embassy (WNI)

General Documents for Foreign Partner (WNA)

Foreign nationals must prepare the required documents listed below.

Documents Needed for CNI Application (WNA)

Make sure all documents are correctly translated and legalized before submission.

Step 4: Get Your Certificate of No Impediment (CNI)

A CNI proves you’re legally allowed to marry. Visit your country’s embassy or consulate in Indonesia to apply. Plan early; getting this certificate usually takes some time, and it can expire within a few months.

Step 5: Choose Your Wedding Ceremony Type

In Indonesia, you’ll have a religious ceremony. In many cases, couples also need to hold a civil ceremony to ensure their marriage is legally recognized. Muslims marry at a KUA office, while Christians, Hindus, and Buddhists usually have two ceremonies, one religious, one civil. 

Book your marriage ceremonies, arrange witnesses, and learn about traditional customs like providing a dowry (mahar). Different religions may require multiple wedding ceremonies, including both religious and civil components.

Step 6: Celebrate Your Wedding Day!

This is the day you’ll say your vows and officially marry. During your ceremony, you’ll sign official records and receive a temporary marriage certificate. Muslim weddings receive a marriage book (Buku Nikah). These marriage books serve as official proof of marriage for Muslim couples.

Step 7: Register Your Marriage Officially

After your ceremony, report your marriage to the local civil registry office (Catatan Sipil) within 30 days. You’ll need witnesses and small fees. This official registration is very important, don’t miss it!

Without official registration, you may not be considered married by Indonesian authorities or foreign governments.

Step 8: Pick Up Your Marriage Certificates

You’ll soon get your official marriage certificate. If you need it for immigration outside Indonesia, have it translated by an authorized translator. Keep multiple copies in safe places.

Step 9: Apply for Your Spouse Visa (KITAS E31A)

With your marriage registered, you can now apply for an Indonesia Spouse KITAS visa. This process is essential for a foreign spouse to obtain legal residency in Indonesia. You have 14 days to report your marriage to immigration. The KITAS application is straightforward, usually taking about five business days.

Step 10: Update Your ID, Bank, and Health Information

Finally, update important personal details:

• The Indonesian spouse updates their ID card (KTP) and family card (KK).
• Foreign partner considers updating passport name (if changed).
• Both update bank accounts, phone SIM cards, and health insurance.

By following these clear steps, you’ll smoothly handle the paperwork and enjoy your new married life in Indonesia!

What Will This Cost? (IDR & USD)

These cost ranges are verified as of July 2025, based on official embassy, Indonesian government, and expat community sources. Always check with your embassy, KUA, civil registry, or notary for the most current fees.

Here is a clear breakdown of how much money you will need to marry your Indonesian partner in 2025. Costs depend on your city, religion, embassy fees, and personal choices.

1. Document Preparation and Legalization

• Certificate of No Impediment (CNI) from your embassy: USD 50–150 (IDR 800,000–2,400,000)
• Birth certificate translation and legalization (if not in Indonesian): IDR 300,000–1,000,000 (USD 20–65)
• Police clearance certificate (SKCK) if required by the embassy: IDR 100,000–500,000 (USD 7–35)
• Notary fees for document certification: IDR 500,000–1,500,000 (USD 35–100)

2. Marriage Ceremony and Registration

• Muslim wedding at KUA office: Free to IDR 600,000 (USD 0–40)
• Muslim wedding outside KUA (hotel or villa): IDR 600,000–1,000,000 (USD 40–65)
• Christian, Hindu, or Buddhist wedding with civil registration: IDR 1,000,000–3,000,000 (USD 65–200)

3. Prenuptial Agreement

• Drafting and notarizing prenup (required for property ownership): IDR 4,000,000–10,000,000 (USD 250–650)

4. Spouse Visa (KITAS E31A)

• Application costs including agent fees: IDR 10,000,000–15,000,000 (USD 650–1,000)

5. Wedding Celebration (Optional)

• Small dinner or simple party: starts at IDR 5,000,000 (USD 325)
• Large wedding with venue, catering, and decorations: IDR 50,000,000–200,000,000 (USD 3,200–13,000) or more.

Special Cases: Overseas Marriage

If you are an Indonesian citizen or a foreign citizen planning to get married abroad, there are extra steps to make sure your marriage is recognized back home. After your wedding ceremony overseas, you must obtain a marriage certificate from the relevant institution in the country where you were married. This marriage certificate needs to be translated into Indonesian by a sworn translator and then legalized by the relevant embassy or consulate.

To comply with Indonesian law (specifically Law Number 1 of 1974), Indonesian citizens who get married abroad must register their marriage with the Indonesian embassy or consulate in the country where the marriage took place. Once you return to Indonesia, you must also report and register your marriage at the local civil registry office (Catatan Sipil) to ensure the Indonesian government officially recognizes it.

Foreign citizens married to Indonesian citizens abroad may also need to obtain the appropriate visa to enter Indonesia and complete the marriage registration process at the civil registry office. Following these steps ensures your marriage is valid under Indonesian law and avoids complications with legal status or future documentation.

Special Cases: Tourist Marriages in Indonesia

Tourists who wish to get married in Indonesia face a unique set of legal requirements. Before your marriage ceremony, you’ll need to secure a special permit from the local authorities and gather all the necessary documents, such as your passport, birth certificate, and certificate of no impediment. Both parties must also provide two witnesses over the age of 18 for the ceremony.

The marriage must be conducted according to the laws and regulations of your respective religious beliefs, and you must obtain a marriage certificate from the local civil registry office to be considered legally married in Indonesia.

Tourist marriages are subject to the same legal requirements as those for Indonesian citizens and foreign citizens, so it’s essential to ensure all paperwork is complete and properly submitted to the civil registry office. By carefully following these steps, your marriage in Indonesia will be recognized by the Indonesian government, allowing you to avoid any legal issues down the road.